Hi i am 26 yrs old guy who is feminine in behavior, i want to control this as i face many problems.?

You can't force yourself to be ';manly'; In fact I don't even like that generalization.





those ';manly'; men, cry when no one's looking, be loud and be proud.





Like all those tom-boy girls, they don't hide it, so you don't need to either.Hi i am 26 yrs old guy who is feminine in behavior, i want to control this as i face many problems.?
I'm sorry you are having problems , but you are who you are. Learn to be proud and comfortable in your own skin. I'm sure your a wonderful person... when you believe you are so will everyone else. good luck.Hi i am 26 yrs old guy who is feminine in behavior, i want to control this as i face many problems.?
i dont know exactly what you mean but if you're trying to repress feminine behaviors then one thing you can do is talk less and use less words. Females use 1000 words more per day on average. dont use your hands so much when you speak. gay men and women tend to do this often and much more than straight men. and lastly think about wat you say before you say it so you dont have to interject words such as ';like'; or ';um'; which come off girly.
Take male hormones. They suppress the femininity in males which is a disease that can be treated.
Sorry to hear that you're having problems with this. I think you can mask it for a short time, but to permanently change will be a little more difficult. Be who you are ... if you feel a time when you're having a hard time, console in close friends that don't give a s.hit how you act. I do have one idea for ya, I had a friend such as yourself that had a voice that was pitched a little higher than should be. He trained with a speech therapist vocalizing in low octaves when he spoke. Now he speaks with a lower tone.... not Sylvester Stallone low, but it's lower than it was. Hope that helps ... good luck to you!
it's simple Act like a MAN . there is no other answer
Unfortunately you cannot control it. I had a friend who was really feminine by nature, he was trying to be macho but it was ridiculous. Its who you are, be out and proud. As for the problems, I guess you live in a problematic area or country. Move to NYC, London UK or Amsterdam etc. You will be much happier and you will be proud for what and who you are.
i have a good idea





go to a rock concert and get wasted





the next morning you will have a deep croaki voice from al the shouting and you will smell like a bar / alchoholic then u will feel like a man, dont shave for weeks
You can try to change your behavior patterns but I doubt if you'll ever be as masculine as you'd like to be.